CoPatterns
Co-parenting communication analysis

Years of messages. Real patterns. You shouldn't have to untangle them alone.

CoPatterns surfaces communication patterns, timelines, and evidence from your co-parenting records, so you can see what the messages actually show, organized and backed by the source.

Not a replacement for legal advice. A faster, more reliable way to work with the record.

The problem isn't the evidence. It's the volume.

You have thousands of texts, emails, and app messages. Somewhere in that pile are the patterns that matter: late pickups, ignored requests, broken agreements, escalating tone. But no one can read 3,000 messages and hold it all in their head.

Attorneys don't have the hours. Courts don't have the patience. And copying messages into a spreadsheet doesn't show patterns, it just reorganizes the mess.

CoPatterns changes that.

What CoPatterns does

CoPatterns analyzes your co-parenting communication records and surfaces the patterns that matter. Instead of rereading everything yourself, you get a structured view of what's happening, when, and how often, with every claim tied back to the source messages.

CoPatterns helps you organize and understand communication records. It does not replace legal judgment or professional counsel.

See the big pictureAggregate communication patterns across months or years of messages.
Surface the patternsIdentify recurring behaviors, tone shifts, and response patterns.
Back it with evidenceEvery pattern links to the actual messages that support it.
Why drill-down matters

A summary you can't verify is just a claim.

Other tools give you summaries. CoPatterns gives you summaries you can verify. Every pattern, every timeline, every behavioral flag links back to the actual messages, so you can show the court exactly where the evidence lives.

That's the difference between “they're always late” and “here are 27 messages showing late pickups over 6 months.”

Patterns are only as strong as the evidence behind them.

Built for the people inside the case.

Parents preparing for court

You know the patterns exist in your messages, but finding and organizing the evidence across thousands of texts feels impossible. CoPatterns does the heavy lifting so you can walk into court prepared.

Family law attorneys

Stop billing hours to scroll through message exports. Get structured evidence your client can review and you can present, with every claim traceable to its source.

Custody evaluators and mediators

Review communication dynamics between parties faster. See the patterns in tone, responsiveness, and cooperation without reading every message yourself.

What CoPatterns is not

CoPatterns is not a lawyer, a therapist, or a judge. It does not predict outcomes, generate legal arguments, or tell you what to do. It analyzes communication records and surfaces patterns so you and your legal team can make informed decisions based on what the messages actually show.

A pattern analysis tool, not a legal strategy engine.

From the blog

Semantic Compression for Human Communication Archives

Most people don't have a data problem. They have a cognition problem. The raw information is technically available, but it's just trapped in a form no human can reasonably work with.

Read the essay

The record already has the answers. CoPatterns helps you find them.

Stop scrolling through thousands of messages. Surface the patterns, build the timeline, and show the evidence, whether you're preparing for a hearing, working with your attorney, or trying to make sense of years of communication.